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Module 7 · Family and relationships

Lesson 69 · Lower intermediate · 4 min

Expressing affection

Telling someone close that you miss them and love them, and receiving blessings.

  • Unreviewed: this lesson’s Darija and translations have not yet been checked by a native speaker.

In this lesson

  • Express affection in the family
  • Choose the right words for the relationship
  • Understand elders’ blessings

“Kanbghik” (I love you) is said in families and couples. Between friends, people prefer “3ziz 3liya” (you’re dear to me). Grandparents give blessings: “lah yrdi 3lik”.

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This lesson hasn’t been recorded yet, and we won’t fake it with a made-up voice. Read the dialogue out loud with the help of the transliteration key.

Dialogue

  1. AdamAllo, a mmi! Twe7chtek bzzaf.Hello, Grandma! I miss you so much.
  2. Mmi l7ajjaA wlidi, 7ta ana twe7chtek! Kif dayr, a 3zizi?My boy, I miss you too! How are you, my dear?
  3. AdamLabas, l7amdoulillah. Kanbghik bzzaf, a mmi.Fine, thank God. I love you so much, Grandma.
  4. Mmi l7ajjaLah yrdi 3lik a wlidi. Fou9ach ghadi tji?God bless you, my son. When are you coming?
  5. AdamF l3otla, inchallah. Ghadi nb9a m3ak simana.In the holidays, God willing. I’ll stay with you for a week.
  6. Mmi l7ajjaLah ykhallik liya! Ghadi ntiyyeb lik rrfissa.God keep you for me! I’ll make you rfissa.
  7. AdamNti a7sen jedda f ddenya!You’re the best grandma in the world!
  8. Mmi l7ajjaGhir nta! Bslama, a 7bibi.Oh, you! Bye, my darling.
How to read the transliteration

Darija is written here in Latin letters, the way many Moroccans text. A few symbols stand for sounds English, French and Swedish don't have:

3
a tight sound from the throat (Arabic ع)
7
a breathy h, stronger than English h (ح)
9
a k made deep in the throat (ق)
gh
like a French r (غ)
kh
like the ch in Scottish loch or German Bach (خ)
ch
like English sh (ش)

Vocabulary

twe7chtekتوحشتك
I miss you
kanbghikكنبغيك
I love youIn families and couples. Between friends: “3ziz 3liya”.
3ziz 3liyaعزيز عليا
you’re dear to me
a 3zizi / a 3ziztiآ عزيزي / آ عزيزتي
my dear (m. / f.)
a 7bibi / a 7bibtiآ حبيبي / آ حبيبتي
my darling (m. / f.)
lah yrdi 3likالله يرضي عليك
God bless you (parents to children)
lah ykhallik liyaالله يخليك ليا
God keep you for me
nb9a m3akنبقى معاك
I’ll stay with you
ddenyaالدنيا
the world
rrfissaالرفيسة
rfissa (festive chicken and lentil dish)
mmiمي
Mum / Grandma (as address)

Repeat after me

Read each phrase out loud, then cover it and say it from memory.

  • Allo, a mmi! Twe7chtek bzzaf.

    ألو، آ مي! توحشتك بزاف.

    Hello, Grandma! I miss you so much.

  • Labas, l7amdoulillah. Kanbghik bzzaf, a mmi.

    لاباس، الحمد لله. كنبغيك بزاف، آ مي.

    Fine, thank God. I love you so much, Grandma.

  • F l3otla, inchallah. Ghadi nb9a m3ak simana.

    فالعطلة، إن شاء الله. غادي نبقى معاك سيمانة.

    In the holidays, God willing. I’ll stay with you for a week.

  • Nti a7sen jedda f ddenya!

    نتي أحسن جدة فالدنيا!

    You’re the best grandma in the world!

Quiz

  1. Question 1 of 7What will Grandma cook?
  2. Question 2 of 7Fill in the blankLah 3lik a wlidi.God bless you, my son.
  3. Question 3 of 7To tell a friend they matter to you, people usually say…
  4. Question 4 of 7Match each expression with its meaning.
  5. Question 5 of 7What does “rrfissa” mean?
  6. Question 6 of 7How do you say “I love you” in Darija?
  7. Question 7 of 7 · Review from lesson 61Review (lesson 61): what does “jedd / jedda” mean?

Your turn

Call someone close: tell them you miss them and when you’ll visit.

Show an example answer

Allo, a mama! Twe7chtek bzzaf. Ghadi nji nhar ssebt, inchallah.

ألو، آ ماما! توحشتك بزاف. غادي نجي نهار السبت، إن شاء الله.

Hello, Mum! I miss you so much. I’ll come on Saturday, God willing.

Summary

“Twe7chtek”, “kanbghik” (family, partners), “3ziz 3liya” (friends), and blessings “lah yrdi 3lik”, “lah ykhallik liya”.

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